Hey hey hey! It's your man Brian here back with another dating site review blog piece and this time I'm looking into the more general area of casual dating and how to get a friend with benefits relationship going through the use of UK casual dating sites.
I'm no stranger to the UK casual dating scene as many of you well know, but I must admit that after my reviews on swinger and fetish dating, which are far more specific and less general in scope than casual dating sites, I've found my latest challenge to find a friend with benefits quite tricky. Even from the start of the process, just trying to figure out which dating sites are best for setting up naughty fun was difficult, as there are so many UK casual dating sites available and its sometimes hard to choose which ones to pay on, due to the number of misleading dating site reviews and false information out there. However, I dipped into my list of trusted contacts as part of my research to find out how to get a friend with benefits in the UK and properly tried four or five different top casual dating sites.
Unlike recent reviews where I've had to wait a while but generally got laid (or at least got myself into exciting new situations with British women) within the first month or two, my mission to find friends with benefits and slutty fuck buddies was a much slower burner. Even when using several casual dating sites, including two or three that I'd heard were up their with the best UK casual dating sites, it still took a while to get to the point where birds were willing to meet up for drinks, never mind sex. Of course, I got there in the end (using a casual dating site UK called CasualSexOnly) but I had to sing for my supper, lads. Not that I mind that, in fact if you're a regular reader of my UK hookup and casual dating reviews then you'll know that I actually expect to put some effort in during my flirting and chatting, so if you're not up for that then a general casual dating site may not be for you.
Assuming that you don't mind spending a bit of time on arranging fun with a local fuck buddy (remember, unlike a one night stand, the key point about being friends with benefits is the regular repeat action that you stand to get out of the arrangement) then you stand a good chance of getting lucky. CasualSexOnly.com, as previously mentioned, was the site where I finally managed to hook up with a girl who was keen to share her number and arrange a friends with benefits set up with me. We slept together the first night, even though she had only planned to have a few gins with me in our local Wetherspoons, and since then she's been in touch twice to see if I'm free. Mission accomplished I'd say, persistence pays off again!
The UK casual dating site CasualSexOnly.com is pretty well known, and one of my contacts had told me that he'd put it up there at the top of his list alongside the best casual dating sites available for arranging hookups online. I was pleasantly surprised by the number of hot and horny UK women on the hookup site and the reply rate I got back from my flirty chat messages was definitely better than the other casual sex search sites I tried. It was actually one of the last casual dating sites I joined during my attempts to find a UK friend with benefits, and so I do wonder if I'd have met a fuckbuddy sooner if I had joined it before the others. Nevertheless, even on CasualSexOnly.com I had to work a fair bit at getting girls to agree to meet me for regular sex due to the fact they have plenty of offers from guys looking for a one night stand. Plus, it's important to remember that being 'friends with benefits' is very much based on establishing a connection due to the fact that you're agreeing to be there for each other for not just for frequent sex, but also companionship – friends with benefits still have to be friends.
All things being considered, I would say to anyone wondering how to get a friend with benefits relationship going that it is definitely possible to find a UK fuck buddy online, but you need to be ready to try a few different sites in order to get chatting to single girls in your area, and then be ready to put in some effort (and patience) in order to find the friend with benefits that's right for you. Good luck chaps!